The first story is the happening in kindergarten.
There are many ways for emotional abusement, in this story, the teacher trivializes her student. Whatever Ella shows to her teacher, she never gets the credit.
Nevertheless, Ella cannot blame her teacher because she always says she loves all of her students.
The good example for trivializing:
“Where did you get a crazy idea like that?”
“Quit bitching.”
“I never know that you are pressed that much”