Can you find what is wrong in this relationship?
Probably, you say, the mother hit her kid. Yes, it is not a recommendable way to educate the children.
However, do you remember the parent said that she does not remember the fact: hit on his head.
Whether with her intention or not, she makes her kids confusing. At the moment, after the hit on the head, she said: “Because I love you”. And then after few years, she says she cannot remember.
She makes her child believe that she is always right. She does not consider the kid’s opinion, and always make the important decision for her kids because she thinks she knows more about the future.
As a result, the kids dragged like a dog for entire his life even after he grew up.